I had my birth certificate out the other day because of bank-related nonsense. As I was putting it away, back in the lock box with the passports and the social security cards and the letter from my sperm donor father, a familiar name caught my eye. The doctor who delivered me was the same doctor who had inseminated my mother. I don't mean my biological father. I mean he was the man who is now known for having impregnated patients with medical student sperm. I learned his name from another local DC person long after the last time I'd look at my birth certificate. I don't know why it surprised me. I guess I had assumed he had been something more than a run-of-the-mill obstetrician and that he wouldn't do prenatal checkups or deliver babies. Impregnating women with donor sperm doesn't require a medical mastermind, but I'd assumed he'd specialized in infertility. I'd assumed he treated... something.
I wonder if the same doctor delivered Hans. I was conceived the semester our father started medical school. Hans was born the semester that he graduated. It doesn't matter. I'm just grasping at things we might have in common. I wonder if Hans and I have ever known someone in common. I wonder if my father and I have ever unwittingly been in the same building at the same time. I never thought about these things before I knew who he was. Then I thought how likely it was.
I wonder if any medical student anonymous sperm donor has ever examined a woman carrying his child, or been present for the birth of his own child. It didn't happen to me because first years don't see patients, but what if someone donated as a third year or fourth year? Third and fourth years see patients. If a medical student had his obstetrics and gynecology rotation when a patient or four were gestating his offspring, it seems like there would be a decent chance he might see one of them. He could see one of those patients or possibly even be present for the birth of his own offspring and, based on the secrecy and alleged lack of record keeping at the hospital where I was created, there would be no way he or anyone else would ever know.